Why is my boyfriend gay
Is My Boyfriend Gay? Or Is It My Anxiety?
Its not uncommon to include a passing thought about your boyfriends or girlfriends sexual orientation. If questions like is my boyfriend/girlfriend gay take over, it may be a indicate of obsessive-compulsive disorder.
Its organic to have doubts sometimes about our romantic relationships. It happens all the time. But what if you cant stop trying to figure out whether your boyfriend or girlfriend is gay?
If youre direct, its scary to consider that youre with someone whos gay and hasnt realized it yet. Lots of people take a long time to achieve their sexual orientation, right? Maybe your boyfriend or girlfriend is just in the early part of this process. How can you tell?
Could This Be OCD?
For some people, the doubt and anxiety they experience around this topic rise to the level of obsessiveness.
Obsessions are a hallmark symptom of obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). They typically take the form of an upsetting or scary thought that causes significant anxiety.
Sometimes in OCD, obsessions center on thoughts about o
If the thought has ever crossed your mind, I ponder my boyfriend is gay this upload is for you.
This is a subject that I own wanted to inscribe about for a very long period. Why? Because I once dated a guy who was everything I had ever wanted, until I found something that forever changed the foundation that our relationship was built on.
I was once that miss, who didnt know what to do or where to change. A girl that found herself in the middle of the night Googling, Is he gay? Is my lover gay? I believe my boyfriend is gay while *he* was sound asleep next to me as seemingly NOT gay as ever. I had never had a connection with anyone like this before. It couldnt be. But then again, why did I find what I found on his phone?
Not only did I not locate anything from my Google searches, but I actually found a ton of junk out there that personally, I consider is very disrespectful to the same-sex attracted community. If he hangs out with guys, If he spends longer doing his hair than you do, If he dances want (I dont understand what that even means), If he
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I have a similar situation with my relationship. My boyfriends lgbtq+ friend is inLove with him and he doesnt realize that. there is so many things that make me realize that.
1 they see each other once a week to drink in a bar, when they perform and get drunk, my boyfriends gay friend starts complementing him in front of me , like his handsome, touching his arm ( in a way that makes me uncomfortable), looking him with this in devote eyes. start making inappropriate joke
2 he had a picture of a naked guy that looks like my boyfriend and even he shows the pictures to everybody. and he start saying DOESNT HE LOOK LIKE HIM???
3 he told my boyfriend that he heard that i was dating one of his friends a couple of times( guy that I dont even know). obviously lies.. dont know what was exactly his intention.
4 he invited my boyfriend first to an island and a week after he mentioned and then he invited me .. ( last minute) obiously my boyfriend/girlfriend didnt
I love my crush but I think I'm gay
It’s a loaded question and I’m sure your not the only one to ask if let alone ponder this.
I can understand loving someone and not feeling attracted to them, one of my best friends is female, and she’s attractive. And I love her immensely yet I possess no sexual attraction to her and the feeling is mutual.
But you contain to have a dense thought process with oneself. In early recovery we often ponder alot of things, our existence, our purpose, our meaningful relationships, I know I did, for some this could be career, family friendships relationships, and include sexuality,
As far as your lack of attraction to your mate, This could be many things, your hold sobriety process clouding the idea of intimacy, the fact that the partnership has already cycled and your holding on to avoid letting go of some comfort. There’s already a lot going on in your head, and this is just one of those things you may be pondering
I’m gonna give you something that was given to me by an old marriage counselor, mind you that’s a misnomer because we weren’t mar