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Until recently, if you were looking to hook up on a gay dating app like Grindr, you’d enter your sexual preferences as “top” or “bottom.” In a sexual context, bottoming is the proceed of taking a dick (or a dick-shaped object) in your ass whereas topping implies doing the penetration. When it comes to gay and bi men, a lot of people seem compassionate of obsessed with working out who&#;s a top/giver and who&#;s a bottom/receiver, but in life, MSM (men who have sex with men) may do both or neither. If you’re relaxed doing both, then you’re “versatile.”
However, if you didn’t prefer anal sex, the option on Grindr used to be: “no anal.” As dismissive as that sounds, there simply was no other way to convey that you didn’t want to have penetrative sex but that that wasn’t all there was to sex. But earlier this month, Grindr – a dating app for queer people – officially introduced “side” as a sexual option on the app, making it easier for many men to finally put a term to what they enjoy in bed.
Coined in by sex and affair therapist Joe Kort, who himself is queer and identifies as a s
Would you describe yourself as douche-curious? Perhaps you’ve been douching for a while but are looking for pointers. However seasoned you are at putting things up your butt, there’s always something new to learn! So we’ve deposit together a beginner&#;s reference to anal douching with everything you need to know when you wish to start squirting down below. 😉
What is anal douching?
Douching is the execute of shooting a jet of warm water or a saline solution into the rectum to pure it out before sex. Douching uses several types of devices to accomplish this, each referred to as a ‘douche’. We’ll cover these in more detail below.
Some people may instead use what’s famous as an enema for douching. These are medical devices designed to relieve constipation and are not recommended for douching, as they often come with a medicated solution to soften stools or apply a far greater volume of liquid than is required when preparing for anal sex.
Should you douche?
That’s up to you! Whether you douche or not is entirely up to the individual.
Many guys enjoy to douche because it reassures them of no surp
Looking after your assets: everything you need to grasp about maintaining a happy, healthy ass
By Emen8, updated 11 months ago in Sex and virtual dating / Sex
Anal sex. It’s probably not a deeply explored topic in the standard birds-and-bees chat.
But just like the rest of your sexy bits, your anus offers a whole wonderful society to explore, and the mechanics are just the origin. Bottoming can be one of the most intense, intimate, vulnerable and mind-blowing things you can do with another guy. Or it can be average, uncomfortable, embarrassing and very unsatisfying.
The difference can be as simple as arming yourself with the right information — and, as always, we’ve got your back(side). Read on for the steaming take on maintaining a happy, strong ass, and how to use it for the top sex of your life.
1. Get to know the basic anatomy
As you can see from the handy diagram, this area involves several special muscles and sphincters. It sits right behind your prostate and the rest of your sex anatomy, which is why it feels so fine when your buddy is inside you. It’s also lined
Life on the Bottom
I enjoyed a short-lived career on the bottom. My college boyfriend’s family lived in a duplex on Park Avenue, where we’d often slip away on weekends. Meals were rich and plentiful — foie gras, profiteroles, double magnums of Riesling, etc. — all of which I eagerly imbibed. Following one such decadent feast my freshman year, when we were still very much in the honeymoon phase of our first gay bond, Dan and I retired to his bedroom and got to work. For weeks we’d been easing into penetration with me on the bottom, but the pain had proven prohibitive. Also at act was acute paranoia of involuntary defecation, something I’d been assured was a common, yet unwarranted, interest of bottoms.
Presumably though, most surveyed hadn’t recently gorged on three helpings of fattened goose liver. It’s firm to look someone in the eye after shitting their childhood bed — let alone date them for seven more years afterward — but that’s exactly what happened. What didn’t happen — and hasn’t since, really — was me back on the bottom.
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